Neil Gustafson (right) with one of his pledge brothers in November 2011. A yearafter surgery and chemotherapy to fight testicular cancer, Neil and hisfraternity raised more than $6,000 during Movember.
Photo courtesy of Neil Gustafson
Neil shaved his head prior to starting chemotherapy.
Photo courtesy of Neil Gustafson
During his chemotherapy in 2010, Neil's hair fell out.
The key is to give each other permission to change and to be supportive; butdecisions should be made as a team and not unilaterally and the party initiatingthe change should take into consideration the impact the change will have on theother.