Ellie Scarborough and Amy Lynch are two bodacious bombshells locked & loaded with intelligent answers to all your questions about dating, love, sex, breakups and all things in between. Ellie launched a community in 2010 to help girls get through heartbreak, giving them tips, tools and inspiration to keep them moving forward without looking back. Now, she and professional partner-in-crime(s of the heart) Amy are lending their expertise to CultureMap, solving the problems of the 512's lovelorn one no-BS answer at a time.
Males of the world: this is a teachable moment.
I just recently broke up with my girlfriend of two years as a result of tensions that built up when I began attending law school. I literally don't have time to go anywhere 20 minutes from campus, much less three hours (which is how far away she lives). Since then, I've started dating an awesome girl in my class and my ex has been all over it -- facebook stalking, the whole nine. She's really upset, but even though I don't feel like she has any right to be, I also don't want to be a jerk. What should I do?