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Pink Kisses answers: How to hang out with an ex
Ellie Scarborough and Amy Lynch are two bodacious bombshells locked & loaded with intelligent answers to all your questions about dating, love, sex, breakups and all things in between. Ellie launched a community in 2010 to help girls get through heartbreak, giving them tips, tools and inspiration to keep them moving forward without looking back. Now, she and professional partner-in-crime(s of the heart) Amy are lending their expertise to CultureMap, solving the problems of the 512's lovelorn one no-BS answer at a time.
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I'm getting over a breakup and really need some advice. We were together for two years and he wanted to keep it quiet, but after a year I let some people know, and he did a bit too. Now that he feels it's no longer a secret, he's moved on to his next secret affair. Those who knew about me say he's "repainting the picture," as he calls it. His new girlfriend is doing all she can to make the break up difficult on me. I would love to not see them at all, but unfortunately we run in the same circles. I need to be able to live my life without him, heal from the breakup, which is mine alone since to him I never happened. My friends and family are so angry about this, they're actually making it harder on me. He's not married, but has a high profile job, and the woman he's now dating works in a high profile position too at the same organization, so he gets to have another secret with high risk... I guess that's his thing. I really need to know how to be around this man and his woman with some grace and dignity without falling apart.
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